Though I’ve committed to touching base here once a month, this time around, I’m quickly running out of month. I’m now skidding into May’s home plate with a to-do list that would choke a horse and a teaming inbox.
I’ll blame the warming weather that entices me outside, away from the keyboard, niggling emails, and a mess of chores. But how could I turn down a lunch with girlfriends? (That’s me on the left with Jennifer Manuel in the middle and Elinor Florence on the right.)
Or a walk in the sunshine? Those are the pigs that grunt their hellos when I pass by Orkney Farm. And the weekend farmers’ market—part social, part shopping—draws me in like a bee to nectar.
May is also a big birthday and anniversary month among my family and friends. This dinner at the Old House in Courtenay was a birthday celebration. That’s Elinor Florence and her husband Heinz on one side, and opposite are me and the Cave Master.
When I have sat down at the laptop this month, it’s felt like a wrestling match with a story that refuses to yield. It’s unruly, and the ref keeps throwing down (up?) yellow flags. It’s a sure sign I need to take a step back.
The birthdays and anniversaries remind me that time marches on, the yellow flags remind me that sometimes I need distance from the stories to see them clearly, and the sunshine reminds me to get outside, breathe, and realign my priorities.
Health and family comes first, writing second, all else? Get in line. Spring will bless us just once this year. Chores will go on the rinse and repeat cycle ad infinitum. I’m choosing sunshine with family, good friends, and piglets. See you in June! With any luck, the yellow flag situation will be resolved by then.
Kristina Stanley says
I’m starting to feel like I’m getting connected in the author scene. I see I know Elinor in the photo above. How fun!
JP McLean says
I always learn something new when I connect with other writers. It feels like a swap meet, but with more wine!
Kristina Stanley says
That sounds fun. Wish I’d been there.
JP McLean says
Let’s get together the next time you’re on the coast!
Kristina Stanley says
Yes! That sounds great. I’ll let you know when 🙂
Christy B says
I hear you about life being a whirlwind at the moment! I’m glad you had a good birthday ~ Happy belated b-day 🙂 And congrats on the anniversary too. At least these are good interruptions from the writing, on the positive side 😉 Hope those yellow flags stop showing up xx
JP McLean says
Thanks, Christy. I love those good interruptions – the chores, not so much. Hope your writing is coming along well.
Diana Stevan (@DianaStevan) says
This is a great line! “Chores will go on the rinse and repeat cycle ad infinitum.” How true! Hang in there, writing buddy. I’m trying to get to it as well. Like you say, life intrudes, but then again, that’s where we get our gems from.
JP McLean says
Thanks! I’m still waiting for the vacuum to toss a gem my way. Ha!